The Divorce by Nicole Strycharz is an astonishing read. It grabbed me from page one and refused to let go, even when I wasn’t actually reading it. The story revolves around Jenzy and Chris, married for seven years, happily for five. The last two, for Jenzy at least have been slowly crushing the life out of her.
College sweethearts, they are complete opposites and their relationship – from dating to marriage – has been tempestuous, but the pros always outweighed the cons. Lately, however all the things that Chris used to love about his wife have begun to irritate him and he is so wrapped up in his job and the gym that he barely notices her anymore. Jenzy has tried everything to rekindle the flame, to little effect. Chris has forgotten so many things over the past couple of years and then to top it all he forgets Valentine’s Day, their special day.
It proves to be the last straw and hurt beyond reason, Jenzy leaves. Chris who despite a multitude of warning signs, doesn’t see it coming and is flabbergasted as the heart-wrenching process that is a divorce, begins.
I went through so many emotions reading their story. I laughed, cried, my heart broke – not once, several times – as little by little Jenzy’s reasons for such a huge step are revealed. I was so angry with Chris; I wanted to punch his lights out. His behaviour was thoughtless and cruel; in fact he was lucky that Jenzy had stayed as long as she had. The shock of her leaving, however, was the kick up the butt he needed and, accepting that he may be too late, he tries to win her back. Unfortunately, sometimes the hurt goes too deep and even though still you love the one who hurt you, the thought that despite all the promises, they may forget again makes you wonder whether the risk too great.
This book is a journey, a long, complicated, messy, tumultuous journey and probably reflective of many couples who have experienced divorce. It is also about the hard work that a keeps a marriage alive and a huge, big, fat, enormous reminder never, ever to take your partner for granted.
Jenzy and Chris are beautifully drawn and are so real they virtually walk out of the pages and I enjoyed reading the story from both points of view, with flashbacks to their first meeting and early romance. They each have traits that we recognise in ourselves, and hereby lies Nicole’s skill. Her portrayal of their disintegrating relationship strikes a chord, eliciting empathy for both Jenzy and Chris, while reminding us not to make the same mistake.
Although the subject matter is painful, I loved and was riveted by this book, desperately willing them to sort it out, that a great love is worth fighting for and sometimes we deserve a second chance to prove it. No spoilers though, you’ll just have to discover it for yourselves, it’s so worth it.
The Divorce is available on Amazon